#552 reminder

I’m just posting all these because people like these exist. The world is cruel. Shrugs

Edit:
Wed, Aug 7th, 11:22 AM

Cruelty includes the harsh reality that gangs actually exist. That you need to pay someone or do something for someone to get something.

Cruelty includes Muslim politicians actually do drugs or do adultery. Well actually, not just them. Celebrities or just normal people. It has become a norm and that's even sadder.

I am just trying to live, putting the 'Why' to my life, for Allah, and Allah only. Seriously. The reminder from my friend really helps. If I don't follow Islamic profiles on social media, alhamdulillah I have friends who love to give those kind of reminders.

p/s: The 'friend' is Muna, a revert. MasyaaAllah. I actually like to read hers and Hanis' WhatsApp stories. So full of reminders <3 br="">

#551

It’s funny that all you reply is just that sentence and also a screenshot of google search which proved I’m right. 

Inches is double prime - “

Foot is single prime - ‘

So what are you trying to say here?

And the fact that I’m left hanging like that lol

The customer service is so bad y’all just be thankful that IG don’t have ratings from customers. SMH

It’s sad that people don’t want to take an anonymous customer seriously. Like, what if it was a celebrity? I assure you they would treat them differently and better. 

I respect them but now having this reply, I kinda lost respect. They’re not like Anaabu’s customer service. I’m disappointed. 

#550

Here was a post about this IG shop https://beautificious.blogspot.com/2019/05/537.html

So I made a complaint then just ignored her reply because I was sick and annoyed by her ego and ignorance. 

After I made a couple of complaints the other day recently, I toughen up to read what she has said.

And it’s so disappointing. I just cannot with this kind of seller.

I’m so curious on sellers like this. Don’t you want to know what people think about your business? Ah yes, do whatever you think is right and ignore all the haters. But how can you improve without knowing your flaws?

I mean, I know I’m so egoistic that it’s hard to take criticism that I always cry when people tell the bad side of me. But I accept it. It’s true. And that’s where I could improve myself.

Since the first time I complained about the address, that tak sampai ke alamat saya ni sebab different courier. Since even that, no apologies AT ALL. Until the end of the conversation!

Can’t she just admit that yeah you need to check again on the courier. I don’t need your repeated explanation. You just don’t want to admit that you’re wrong lol zz

I like the clothes she sell but I think it’s better for me not to deal with this IG shop anymore. 

#549

A lot of times, we think we need to be reassured by someone else but what we don’t realise is, the worst criticism we often get is from ourselves and it’s actually our own toxic opinions that we need to save ourselves from.

We can’t change how people view us but we can change how we view ourselves. The person you’ll have to live with for the rest of your life is ultimately yourself, so don’t forget that YOU are in need of compassion just as much as the person next to you.

- dearsarina

#548 talkative friends

I realise it's easier for me to talk to people or be close to people who talk so much. I feel like I can easily open up to them.

I mean, look at my lower high school friends, Atul, An, Mad, Qila, Na'a, some others but not major;
My high school friends, Atira, Alia;
My Uni friends, Hannan and actually some others but I stopped trying to be natural because some realisation hit me...

Anyway. Those people, are talkative. And I'm close with them, or was close with them. Or so I thought.

The point is, in this world, it's really hard for me to talk, having conversations on random topics, even politics or global warming. I just couldn't. I'm passive like that.

#547 Reposts

I have tagged people and posted beautiful photos and what not. But with no context and no caption.

Alas, they still don't repost my photos on their stories or feed. Lol. I guess I'm not good enough.

Or maybe I cannot think that way. I should think that, the way they see it is so different than my perspective. Not just the people you tagged, but also every other person except yourself.

If I think it's pretty and worthy to myself, then it is. Shrugs.

This reminds me of my goals to post photos more often in a week. Maybe 2 photos?

I have edited all our photos but then I didn't have the mood to post. Even though I know I should just post. But the feeling of posting to public needs to be there too. It's some kind of feeling that I need it to be there not for others but for myself.

#546 KARMA

So we talked about karma.

Mobile Legends MPL and qualifying.

About Bosskur VS our friend's squad, 'W'(Not MPL, but some local national league.)

and Bosskur VS some international squad. 'Indo'

So there was a really unacceptable thing that Bosskur and the management did. There should have been a rematch but the management proclaimed that W said something like there's no need for a rematch when actually W did not say anything oppose to having a rematch! They showed us the screenshots and CLEARLY by SO MANY people that read those conversations see it as W wants a rematch. WTH?!

And things like this happened to Bosskur in international game. Where Bosskur is in W's shoes. 

So we thought, TAKE THAT KARMA. I think they deserved it. I mean, it happened. I don't feel sorry for them in this particular event. Karma is real.

#545 socks

Update on this post here.

I end up buying quite a few socks. Then added more after that. Lol. They are actually better quality than H&M, that I can't lie, I regret not buying grey colours.

I did make a purchase for 8 pairs of different colours for the new stocks. I haven't received them but I already don't feel good about it because it is not the glitter fabric. It might not be as quality as the glitter ones. I'm just worried if it would turn out like H&M socks. Sigh.

I would just give them away to my mom I guess.

#544 Complaining

You know, when people say, stop complaining, and be grateful to what you have. Make most of what you have etc etc.

I think, these quotes do not apply in customer rights, or consumerism. If customers don't complain, how would a business improve? How would sellers know what they lack of? How would sellers know what customers want?

So I guess I'm one of the customers, who like to give complaints. Sometimes I feel like I'm being annoying and not being grateful. But thinking that a business should know what customers think? Sellers themselves are not all perfect.

This reminds me of a Matta-Fair's promoter. She called my husband, and he didn't want it. He didn't need it. She snapped at that, man. She said, "Kalau encik tak nak package ni, there must be something wrong with you." WOW. That's harsh. So stupid. I just can't brain her marketing skills. W. T. H.

Actually, I just wanted to talk about kaeki and meinty. The things I want to complain are small issues but it just irks me. 

Kaeki's jeans. It says on the measurement that it is 26 inches, stretched to 35 inches. So here, wouldn't you think that without doing anything (stretching or adjusting to make it smaller) to the pants, the waist is 26 inches? So the waist measurement made me buy the pants because I don't need to adjust anything. I don't need to tie it to make it tighter on my waist. But when I tried it on, it is so freaking loose. I thought it was 28 inches, but it is a good 30-freaking-inches. 4 inches difference? Or ~9cm difference? And you only allow like what, 1cm difference?

And you know what's worst? They proudly present the symbol of inches in the measurement chart as ', i.e a single apostrophe. That's the symbol for foot?!?!?!?!?!? The ignorance! You are busy with your own business, that you don't take your collaboration seriously? Three heads but not a single person to notice that small mistake?

Move on to meinty. There's a measurement on the one I bought and already wear it twice by now. It has dropped shoulders, 24" (thankfully they spell the symbol right). And the sleeves are 26". I asked, is the sleeve measurement from neckline or shoulderline? She answered shoulder. If it's from shoulder, then it's kind of really long if you look at the photo. Like I would believe it's from shoulder if the length is around 19-20". Even that is already long enough. I didn't argue much because she said the sleeves are long, especially if you usually wear M size, and the fact that it does look long in the photos for a quite broad shoulder person.

It fits well when I tried it on. I like it even. Just that, her answer 'shoulder' for the measurement, it irks me. Because it's only a good 17 inches, while the length from neckline is 27-28 inches. So, the measurement that she put on is probably from neck line and NOT shoulder line, even though it's out 1-2 inches, because maybe they don't take into account the cuff length.

Here I am, wondering, what does it mean by measurement from neck line or shoulder line? You don't expect people to measure the shoulder length from a non-existing line, that only you know about it? Lol SHAKE MY HEAD

Sorry. I haven't told them about this, but I'm going to, now. I hope I don't come as too harsh. I don't want to. Just want to let them know. Shrugs.

Update 12:50pm

Texted (WA-ed) Meinty. They apologised and politely said will take note on the measurement. Good PR skills yaw

Update 2:42pm

Texted Kaeki agent. And dare her to say, "Dia ok je sebab adjustable *smiley*." Like, sis, okay to me or okay to you? Okay to you? Why? You don't need to forward this matter to HQ?

I thought of anonymously complain about this. Also thought that, isn't that being coward? But then I realise, so what? I'm a real customer. I exist. I bought your items and I deserve to be anon. There are anon feedbacks in this world.

Anyway, obviously it's not okay for me? I complained, and I explained why. Like, is it not better if you ask, instead of giving a statement? For instance, "Does it fit you well?" or "Do you want an exchange?" or "Apologies for the wrong measurement."

Oh well

#543

I know that confidence builds by doing. But I am really uncomfortable showing my own face broadcasting to public. Not because I'm not pretty, but because I don't talk much. And even if my face is not shown, I don't talk much too. 

I just basically don't talk much to people since I stopped working in Audit field. Like on serious note, I only talk with my husband.

I don't know how to converse with men at work, other than about work. It feels so uncomfortable. I've got so many things on my head that I could say out loud. That I could joke about. But nothing comes out. 

Well heck, I might not even know how to converse with all other men. I can't. I couldn't. Is it that I feel insecure? That I'm so preserved in the presence of men. 

Hence all these results to me being so difficult to talk in front of cameras. Although I know I like to, like I was in high school, when Attira and I hyped up each other.

I don't know if I can do this. My body didn't feel good yesterday anyway. Like the day itself was overwhelming, I guess.

#542 Facebook Gaming

https://www.facebook.com/erinKARRA.my/

Hey guys. So I've been busy on doing live streaming lately. I do live streaming on mobile games, especially Mobile Legends and PUBGM. My dear friends and family out there, you're welcome to watch. Lol!

I'm working on editing the videos + videos I screencaptured form my phone, to be uploaded on my YouTube game channel. I haven't started anything yet though. It's like vlogging, but about mobile gaming.

I pray this works well.